He got the promotion I wanted. How do I handle it?
Focus on what you can do to improve your performance and don’t dwell on negative thoughts about your colleague
My friend had a psychotic episode – do I reach out or step back?
Don’t hesitate to offer your full, non-judgmental support, even before she gets a full diagnosis
How do I deal with my sore-loser sister?
First try to find out where she’s coming from, then offer objective, specific feedback
He won’t end his affair – what can my friend do?
The question really is what should you do, and the answer is to offer unconditional support
My daughter wants to take a year off before university – what should I do?
You’re worried that anxiety is at the root of her situation, but it may play only a small part. Ask her about what’s going on, and then listen
Everyone else seems more outgoing – how can I meet people?
Don’t be fooled by what you perceive; it’s a challenging thing for many people
How do I curb my sharp tongue with my spouse?
You have to think about why you respond this way – and make the commitment to change
Everything makes me cry – is that weird?
Everyone has different emotional thresholds
How do I make my work nightmares stop?
There’s no magic bullet to end bad dreams, but you can take steps to minimize their frequency and intensity
Can an affair ever help a marriage?
In a word, no. In no situation does a breach of the trust of someone we love turn out well
