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Think your tween is just sexting? Add to ...

Parents who catch their middle school-aged children sexting may be justified in suspecting something more, a new study suggests.

Adolescents who sent or received sexually explicit photos or text messages were three to seven times more likely to be sexually active than their peers not involved in sexting, according to a survey of nearly 1,300 middle school students in Los Angeles.

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“Even among kids as young as 11 to 13, those who sext are also sexually active,” said Eric Rice, who led the study at the University of Southern California in Los Angeles.

“Parents, teachers, social workers and pediatricians all need to recognize that sexting is a contemporary adolescent sexual behaviour. We need to be teaching kids about the ramifications of sexting as part of our sexual education programs,” he said.

The researchers found that three-quarters of the middle schoolers had easy access to texting-capable phones.

Of the kids with cellphone access, 20 per cent said they had received at least one sext and almost five per cent had sent one. Students who had received a sext were about seven times more likely to be sexually active than those who hadn’t and students who had sent a sext were about three times more likely to be sexually active, the researchers found.

In total, 11 per cent of the kids surveyed said they were sexually active. And 30 per cent of them said that the last time they had sex, it was unprotected, according to findings published in Pediatrics.

Past research has found a link between sexting and sex among high school students. The new survey adds middle schoolers who sext as well as those who excessively text to the list of young people who are more likely to be sexually active.

“About 40 per cent of 11- to 13-year-olds are sending more than 100 text messages a day. This appears to be part of a ‘cluster’ of risky behaviours that also includes sexting and sexual activity. Excessive texting may be an indicator for other issues and is something parents, teachers, social workers and pediatricians should be monitoring,” Rice said.

Parents should think about monitoring their middle school-aged children’s cellphones, the researchers say. They should do any monitoring openly, and also consider checking in with children about who they are texting, the researchers recommend.

The findings suggest that sexting and texting can be an opening for parents to talk about sex with their children, Rice’s team adds.

Christopher Houck, a staff psychologist at Rhode Island Hospital in Providence and lead investigator at Bradley Hasbro Children’s Research Center, has also studied sexting and sex but was not involved in the new research.

“Finding strategies to talk about sex can be difficult for parents, and using what’s happening naturally in an adolescent’s environment is a good way to start these conversations,” he said. “For some, it might be talking about things on TV or radio. For others, it might be talking about the texts that they or their friends send and receive, and what that means to them. The key is for parents to find a way to start talking about these important topics.”

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