It started with the No Club, a group of women gathering together to support each other so they might more frequently turn down workplace requests for what they would call crappy tasks. But over time they realized what was crappy work for them was often very important for the organization and the leaders making the assignment. They began to define those tasks as unpromotable work, because it was not honoured by advancing their career even if they won brownie points for accepting them. Next, given the club’s four members were academics, was to investigate the nature of these tasks and in particular the gender divide in assigning and accepting them. Their findings can help us all.
But they didn’t know that initially. They were simply confused and frustrated, drowning in their jobs, feeling the reason was an inability to say no. At the first meeting, when they shared the lists of extra tasks they had agreed to do was long and the comparable list of what they had declined was short. “Rather than being strategic about where to focus our attention, we were running around trying to fulfill other people’s needs and expectations,” Linda Babcock, Brenda Peyser, Lise Vesterlund and Laurie Weingart write in their book The No Club.
They agreed to meet every few weeks, helping to stiffen their spines and resist more. As well, sometimes when asked to take on a task a member sensed she should resist but was about to accept, she would e-mail the group and get immediate, clear-headed advice from the others.
The unpromotable tasks, tellingly, were often invisible to others in the organization and didn’t require any unique skill or capability, but just someone willing to submit. Common examples are filling in when others are absent; organizing and co-ordinating – but not managing – the work of others; editing, proof-reading and compiling, especially the work of others; logistical planning and special events; governance work, such as safety, diversity and climate-change committees; and onboarding and training. They cite Sally, a bartender who is always asked to help bring new employees on board; doing that keeps her from serving customers, so she loses tips and although the boss is appreciative, he doesn’t consider that role in performance assessments.
In their own research and experiments, and in studies by others, they found what they call “substantive and overwhelming evidence” that women more than men are assigned dead-end tasks. “Less saddled with these tasks, men have the freedom to concentrate on work that help them advance, while women’s careers are stalled or stymied,” they write.
Their research found two main factors driving this disparity. First, we ask women more often than we ask men to do such tasks. Second, when we ask, women are more likely to agree. This flows from a collective expectation that women, more than men, will do unrewarded work.
This is an organizational problem that needs to be recognized. But meanwhile, people – particularly women – have to get over the feeling others will not see you as a team player if you say no.
They urge you to get all the information you need to understand the task before making a decision, even if the boss or a colleague is hovering at your door, staring at you, expecting an immediate answer. Consider who is asking and whether you can actually say no. Ask for time to consider, buying you a moment to evaluate the task properly and strengthen your will to resist. Adopt similar patience when volunteers are asked for non-promotable work; don’t be the first to raise your hand.
And form a No Club, a group of friends and colleagues who can meet regularly, to help you resist work that your organization wants you to do but not enough to let it help advance your career.
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Harvey Schachter is a Kingston-based writer specializing in management issues. He, along with Sheelagh Whittaker, former CEO of both EDS Canada and Cancom, are the authors of When Harvey Didn’t Meet Sheelagh: Emails on Leadership.
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