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Readers respond: Not okay, boomer: Tensions mount between generations as some seniors resist social distancing

I could say the same about the young people who continue to party, or the thirty- and fortysomethings who do not keep a one- to two-metre distance.

A lot of people are not following the guidelines but it crosses all age groups. –ThinkAboutIt42

This is not generational as much as selfish people of various ages acting selfishly. This includes the hoarders of all stripes. –Carpetcrawler

Contrary to popular belief, not all boomers are such selfish prats. We are 61 and 63 and home-isolating – would not dream of going to the gym right now, or even to the local mall, etc. –against the wind

I haven’t been to Zumba or the pool in over a month because of my fear of contracting this virus.

Gyms are the perfect breeding grounds for viruses and just aren’t worth it. Now it’s a long walk or cycle until this dreaded pandemic is over. –Anne2301

A trainer at the gym told me you can get a pretty good workout just from squats, push-ups and lunges – all of which can be done in your living room. I’m finding lots of home workouts on social media, too, to switch it up. –GenX65

I am going to work in an essential service, enduring the gratuitous condescension of a leisure class that can afford to idle in self-congratulatory solitude at home. –C. Parsons

Isolating yourself is also a form of selfishness. If you really wanted to help others, you’d volunteer at a food bank. –ConservativeForLife

Nothing to do with age – only hubris, which is equally spread among young and old, rich and poor, male and female and across all ethnicities. –Goshreally

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This is not a generational thing, it is an attitude. I have seen postings of millennials out at bars on the weekend, even sharing drinks. That doesn’t give us the right to vilify all millennials … or boomers.

I think it is fair to say that the majority of people agree with social distancing, based on what is reported on volumes at malls, restaurants, etc. –fbbobby

Well, if that’s the case, it doesn’t reflect my 65- to 70-year-old friends. But if it did, then they are ultimately responsible for themselves, as is anyone who joins them at the gym or the restaurant.

Picking up a bottle of wine combined with social distancing and hand hygiene is no worse than picking up your latte at the now tableless Starbucks – which non-boomers are still fine with.

Personally, I’m exercising outdoors and otherwise hunkering down for the next week or two as events unfold.

They won’t be cruising any time soon. Those floating petri dishes have a well-earned reputation from years gone by, let alone now. –whengoodmendonothing

I think the point is during this crisis, we aren’t just responsible for ourselves, we are responsible for each other. –Pimms

I am the parent and I am the one haranguing my millennial children to be safe.

Not the other way around. –NornIreland

This article explains how despite best efforts by governments, there are always enough people around who will ignore rules and recommendations and spread the virus. –zuglo9

The nice thing about living alone is that I don’t have to worry about someone else bringing the virus into the house. Once I wash my hands, I’m done.

The bad thing about living alone is that no one will know if I have an accident and can’t reach the phone or fall into a coma. –Layla4

I don’t see this as being an age thing. I’m 70 and have been finding the exact opposite situations. All my older friends are taking this very seriously, cancelling trips and getting ready to shelter in place, while some of my younger friends seem to barely know it’s going on.

One 24-year-old granddaughter of a close friend still thinks her wedding in Mexico is going to go off without a hitch in about four weeks, and that everyone will still be attending. She’s currently mad at granny for “being so negative” by encouraging her to scale the wedding down and make it local under the circumstances. –WillieJoe1

The millennials are hoarding our toilet paper. –HW01

I’m a 73-year-old boomer who knows that COVID-19 is far more serious for me than for younger people. I’d be surprised if any 70-year-old who knew that getting the disease meant almost a 1 in 10 chance of dying would be as insouciant as the examples given.

On the contrary, over the past week I've had several younger people offering to shake hands. I bow.

But I can’t resent millennials’ general resentment. They have a tough row to hoe. Or rather, we have had an easy one. –Pacific16

I’m not sure about the sentiment that millennials have it so tough. I’m a boomer. I think my parents had more opportunity than I did. Inheritances were still common for them, but not in my generation. Boomers’ kids sometimes get some help from their parents. I, and the young people I knew then, lived in quite profound poverty by today’s standards, although we didn’t think of it that way. There was much less to “want” back then. A friend and I use to walk downtown for 25-cent beers, share a grilled cheese sandwich at a coffee shop on the way home, then walk home.

Those of you who are older, look back and remember where you lived at 22. Mattress on the floor? Mismatched dishes? Limited wardrobe? Radio? TV? Stereo? Shared accommodation? Shared bathroom? Guitar? Got a raise to $1.50 when minimum wage went up? Sure, it was easier to go around in crappy jeans and shoes, because everyone else was dressed the same – by necessity or choice.

I don’t like this “Ok boomer” sentiment, which I think comes from people imagining their grandparents lived in a nirvana. Perhaps we need to be a little more blunt about the “good old days” when, if you were a woman, you couldn’t even get a car loan. –PagHoward

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Every boomer or person I know over 50 is either self-isolating or has cancelled their travel plans. They are staying in and not going to the casino or anywhere else with lots of people.

I even know a couple, who have been semi-retired for eight years, now have to go and get jobs because their investments have tanked. People can’t see their grandchildren and the seniors centres are closed for recreation and socializing.

Sure there are some, old and young, who are not abiding by the rules, but please do not single out boomers when there is already so much prejudice. –cellogirl56

I’m a boomer, and I’m seeing this in my boomer friends. Last Saturday, I was invited to a dinner party. When I declined and explained that people are being told to self-isolate, I was fully criticized as being alarmist. Many of the boomers I know have good incomes in retirement and travel all the time, so there would have been at least a few there who would have just gotten back from Europe or other locales. As well, we stopped going to the gym two weeks ago, but up until yesterday, when the gym was closed, apparently the place was full of seniors during the day. I read recently about a human tendency toward “normalcy bias,” and I’m seeing so much of this during this crisis. –Cat2Prin

I begged off a couple of events because I have had a bit of a head cold for a while (but no COVID-19 symptoms), so I respect your decision not to attend. I have also been suggesting to people with compromised immune systems that they be careful. Having said that, I would say that some people have a tendency to normalcy bias, while others have a tendency to overreact – subsequent events will always appear to suggest that one or the other was appropriate, but neither overreaction nor excessive complacency are ideal. My 97-year-old uncle still wants me to visit. While I am not going to do so, I still admire his attitude, which combines a desire to live his life with a degree of fatalism. –R Ec

The wipeout in the financial markets will hurt everyone, but hurts retirees the most because they will have less time to recover their losses.

Their window for enjoying life is narrowing further, even for the healthy ones. Let them enjoy what time is left. They aren’t so risk-averse as the rest of us. –HabFan410

Stupidity is not age specific! –Jack Chiavarini

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