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Is it OK to criticize your spouse’s spending on hair care?

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Short answer to this question: No way. While couples should absolutely have frank and open conversations about money, a spousal hair budget should be considered off limits. A U.S. personal finance writer came to this conclusion recently after asking his social media followers about it. "Smart husbands don't mess with the hair-doing budget," one person replied.

Maybe the best way to answer this question is to say that it costs more to be a woman than a man and hair care is part of that. Ever heard of the pink tax? That's the extra price women pay compared to men for basic products. In Montreal, a law firm has launched a class action lawsuit against eight firms for putting higher prices on products for women.

Paying more for deodorant and razors isn't the only way women differ from men in personal finance. More attention is being paid lately to the fact that women must take a different approach to saving and planning for retirement, notably by saving more money.

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