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Sky diving and sun tanning: Bucket list retirement will just depress you

By Rob Carrick

Thanks in large part to smart marketing by the investment industry, retirement is considered by many to be a time when you catch up on all the cool and wacky stuff you couldn't get to earlier in life. Fly to Bora Bora. Try sky diving. Rent the villa in Tuscany.

But how happy are bucket list retirees? Not very, a therapist says. His take is that retirees are happiest when building their relationships with family and friends, not their brag-worthy list of cool vacations.

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Retiring to a sun spot isn't an automatic win, either. Better to make a part-time move – be a snowbird. Here's a nice little review of the things you must think about before retiring. If you're looking for an inspirational retiree, consider David Letterman. The 69-year-old former talk show legend is shown here out for a jog – he looks happy, but not like you remember him.

Now for a look at how actual retirees have done in managing their money. It's all about balancing wants and needs, just like when they were working and raising a family.

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My reply: If you sell, you lock in those capital losses and eliminate a flow of dividend income with tax advantages in non-registered accounts. I consider the dividends from pref shares like your mom holds as safe – these are blue chip companies. As for the shares rebounding, it depends a lot on what type they are and what happens with interest rates. Very difficult to predict, although the S&P/TSX preferred share index was up 6 per cent for the 30 days to April 13.

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