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Developing a strategy to get things done involves saying No to things that aren't priorities, or likely to be fruitful. But saying No can be difficult, whether to bosses, colleagues or friends. On amanet.org , consultants Rosemary Tator and Alesia Latson, offer these handy phrases:
–No, thank you.
–Thank you for the gracious invitation. I regret that I must decline.
–That sounds like a lot of fun, which makes it even harder for me to decline.
–I'm not able to do that right now.
–I have another commitment at that time.
–I'm sorry, I have plans that night. Thank you.
–I have an important family commitment.
–I'd rather decline than do a mediocre job.
–I'd like to help out; but I have other projects I am committed to finishing before I take on anything else.
–I'm sorry; I really can't give that project the attention it deserves.
–Thank you. This really isn't my strong suit. Let me connect you with someone who can do it.
–No, I won't be able to make it, but please let me know how it goes.
–I can't right now, but I can do it tomorrow.
–I can't right now, but I know you will do a wonderful job yourself.
Harvey Schachter