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I thought of Alberta-based Bridget Casey right away when I set out to get the millennial and Gen Z perspective on the housing market into the newsletter. Ms. Casey, founder of the website Money After Graduation, tosses incisive opinions around like hand grenades. In this Q&A we did recently by e-mail, she fully delivers. Prepare for some blunt talk on housing affordability.

Q: What’s your sense of how angry young adults are about not being able to afford houses?

A: It’s more despair than anger, to be honest. They’re definitely frustrated but the tone is more hopelessness than rage. Younger millennials and Gen Z are gobsmacked at the price of houses and are hoping the math somehow works out, but doubt it will. Older millennials simply feel defeated at this point if they were not able to get into the housing market and are grudgingly resigning to never having a shot.

Q: What’s driving the hunger among young adults to own homes?

A: It’s still largely boomer parents, and now Gen X parents, but there’s also a problem with banks pushing it more than ever. I get bi-weekly emails about mortgage offers from every financial institution. My brokerage now offers mortgages. Home decor and house flipping are also major trends on social media. I’m as guilty as anyone for using TikTok, Pinterest, Instagram to browse home renovations. It all sells you on making a space your own. There’s a ton of pressure from all sources.

Q: What, if anything, should the federal government do to help young adults get into the housing market?

A: Ironically, the answer is to stop helping them get into it. Increasing the RRSP first-time Home Buyers’ Plan from $25,000 to $35,000, introducing the First-Time Home Buyer Incentive, keeping interest rates low – all these things are harming young people in the long-term, even if it’s helping them get a house in the short term. People keep thinking about buying a house. They’re never thinking about the costs of actually owning one.

Q: Renting is the obvious alternative to expensive housing, but rents are climbing in some cities. What’s the solution for young adults who need a place to live?

A: There is no magic hack that will make housing more affordable in your area. Your choices are to increase your income or move. I hope so many companies switching to remote work has opened up the possibility for more people to work from home. That would give young people the chance to choose a more affordable neighbourhood, or even more affordable town or city. I have friends that work remotely for major tech companies like Shopify and Facebook. They earn great paycheques, and they choose to live in small cities where that income goes really far.

Q: Do you have any thoughts on the ideal age to buy a home? Asking for two reasons – one is that young 20-somethings seem very keen to tie themselves down with a house, and another is that buying later seems feasible given long lifespans.

A: In hot real estate markets where prices increase rapidly, it can seem tempting to buy when you’re young and lock in at a lower price, but they forget it locks you down to that city. I moved between cities in my 20s for graduate school and job offers, and I’m glad I had the flexibility as a renter to up and leave so easily. Every time I’ve moved it’s increased my annual income by $15,000 or more. I can’t imagine if I had declined those opportunities to stay in one place and “build equity” in my home, or still pursued them but had to deal with the hassle and costs of selling and buying new homes each time I moved. I would say late 20′s to early 30s are ideal to buy a home, when you’ve settled into your career and know where you want to raise your family if you plan to have one.

Q: What’s your housing situation and where do you see yourself in 10 years, housing-wise?

A: I am still a renter but will likely buy in the next one to two years. I thought I was unique, but turns out I’m part of a measurable millennial demographic that skips the starter home and goes right to splurging on a luxury home. Renting has always given me extra cash to put in the stock market, and I ended up with more equity in financial securities than most of my friends have in their homes. I’ll be buying not as an investment, but simply to have somewhere nice for my daughter and I to live. Now that I’m in my mid-30s I’m less likely to move, I’ve hit my stride in my career, my retirement is taken care of and buying a home no longer feels like it would stretch or strain my budget.


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